Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye
STORY BY FRIKKEN FILMS: LIESE KUHN
PRODUCED BY FREE WOMEN FILMS: CAROLYN CAREW, JUDI NWOKEDI, TSHOLO MASHILE
South African film producer Carolyn Carew of Free Women Films had a momentous encounter in 2020 at the Durban Filmmart Talents program, where she discovered the budding talent of Liese Kuhn. During the event, Kuhn pitched her feature film project “Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye.” Mentored by industry veteran Kethiwe Ngcobo, Kuhn’s presentation stood out for its meticulous attention to detail, leading Carew to remark, “I knew this was a talent I could not pass up on. Her eye for detail was something I had not seen in years.”
Recognizing Kuhn’s potential, Carew partnered with her to bring the project to fruition. Their collaboration was quickly rewarded with a scholarship to the prestigious Sundance Script Revision Collab, where Kuhn was mentored by Naomi Foner Gyllenhaal. Additionally, she participated in the Visual Directing Collab under the guidance of Bill Dill, former chair of the American Film Institute. “Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye” continued to gain traction, being selected for JETS in 2022 and later chosen as one of the 11 African projects for the Pavillon Afriques Accelerator Program at Marché du Film in Cannes in 2023.
In September 2023, the project received PESP funding from the National Film and Video Foundation (NFVF), enabling the film to commence shooting in July and August 2024. The film boasts an impressive cast, including Jazzara Jaslyn (The Professionals, Warrior, One Piece), Kathleen Stephens (Death of a Whistleblower, One Piece), Erica Wessels, Brent Palmer, Jennifer Steyn, Nicky Rebelo, David Sherwood, Ntombi Makhutshi, Megan Choritz and Kate Normington.
A Story of Grief and Growth
“Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye” primarily targets young women aged 24-34, specifically those who are recent university graduates or young adults striving to secure their desired career path in culturally diverse cities. These cities, while developed, still exhibit signs of segregation. The film resonates with young adults who have recently experienced or are currently experiencing grief, be it from the loss of a loved one or an ideal. Drawing inspiration from films like Lulu Wang’s The Farewell, Alfonso Gomez’s Me, Earl and The Dying Girl, and Phoebe Waller-Bridge’s series Fleabag, the film is a marriage of heart and humor. It explores the coming-of-age journey of a twenty-something as she grapples with mortality and the loss of ideals, all while navigating the awkwardness of adulthood. The protagonist, Sam, faces her mental well-being and financial instability head-on, embodying perseverance amidst constant disappointments. Her journey offers a unique blend of comedy and poignancy, highlighting the awkward, clumsy, and wonderful moments of young adulthood. Through its offbeat tragicomedy lens, “Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye” celebrates female friendship and the resilience of the human spirit.
Crafting the Cinematic Vision
The film was expertly lensed by Marius de Nysschen, known for his work on Dinge van ‘n Kind and Surviving Gaza. Production design was led by Rocco Pool, who brought his experience from Gaia and Kanarie to create the film’s unique aesthetic. Filming took place in Cape Town during the winter, creating a distinctive look and feel that contrasts with the typical summer portrayal of the city. This choice added a fresh visual perspective, capturing the city’s rarely-seen atmospheric beauty. With filming wrapped, Extravagant Ways to Say Goodbye has now moved into post-production, with the first rough cut completed by the talented Eva du Preez. As the film transitions through this critical phase, the team will seek further post-production funding to ensure the film’s technical and artistic quality meets the high standards set by the creative vision. They are also in pursuit of a sales agent and distributor to bring the film to a broader audience, marking the next chapter in this exciting journey.